Thank you for your feedback on the previous post. I guess I have nothing much to say as everyone has expressed their ideas and facts about the scenario. From now on, I will share some scenarios as a food for thought to everyone. Anyway, wishing everyone Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Adha.
Ok, here’s another scenario. A guy and a girl, ex-couples. To make things easy, just imagine me and Ayu. Well, the guy is still willing to accept the girl as a friend, although the girl has broke the guy’s heart big big time. So yea, one day they decided to meet up at work, you know.. lama udah inda jumpa kan, so being friends I think it’s nothing wrong seeing each other for a while, catching up on things, bla bla bla.
So the girl text the guy up,
“Me otw udah.”
“Ok on my way too..” the guy replied.
The guy came first and waited at the meeting point, outside a small lounge where employees rest. The girl came, said hi and said,
“Kajap ah, kan ke admin kajap check my cuti.”
So she went into one of the offices. The guy waited. 10 minutes later the girl came out, passing by the guy and said,
“Kajap ah, kan ambil barang arah si anu..”
The guy waited, still excited to see the girl. Then she came again, passed by the guy again,
“Kajap ah, kan jumpa Puan anu kajap.”
The guy waited, patiently, still with flowery hopes to have a quick chat with the girl. Tunggu punya tunggu punya tunggu, bulan tara ada timbul lahhh. It was a hot day, the guy went inside the aircon-ed lounge instead of waiting outside. So he texted the girl.
“Me dalam lounge k!”
And guess what the girl replied,
“Me otw ke hospital udah kan appointment doctor, kan mtg lgi kul 3.”
Disappointed big time, the guy replied,
“Me tgu2 eh dari tadi.”
She simply said,
“Sori ah, lain kli sja tani jumpa ah, bye take care.”
The guy didn’t reply, upset and disappointed that he had wasted his time coming over for nothing.
So readers, again your feedback is highly appreciated. There’s a continuation to this short story though but I’ll save it for later.
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December 8, 2008 at 7:43 pm
CL
Say Ayu & you, right? Kesian eh you have to wait for hours.. Personally, I hate waiting. Waiting turns me into a crazy, mad, angry lady….
Well, back to the story.. There’s nothing wrong with meeting up with the exes if you’ve parted nicely. So, the thought of being friends is alright. But why all the wait? If she’s so busy, why did she even telling you to wait? Inda paidah berabis. Mun jadi and banar2 kan jumpa, kenapa menyuruh org tunggu?
I’m so annoyed by the fact that she didn’t even tell you that she’s going off somewhere while you waited there like someone stupid – waiting for nothing. That is one selfish act. Don’t even bother for another ‘meeting’ with her in the future!
Oh ya, Slmt Hari Raya Aidiladha!
December 8, 2008 at 11:44 pm
Zul Cintaislove
I know right, Slmat Hari Raya Aidil Adha to you too CL
December 9, 2008 at 12:21 am
CL
Eh.. made a mistake there.. *why did she even tell you* hehe nda lgi sadar.. emosi tah banar..
December 9, 2008 at 12:51 am
Lady Mia.
Well, she shouldn’t have treat you that way since she agreed to meet up at 1st. Even if she feels awkward meeting up, she shud’ve just tell you that she’s not in the state to meet up yet. Pity you, you have to waste your time waiting for her. Such a selfish lady, she didn’t even tell you that she was going. For most of us women, i think we don’t like waiting for long hours. Membari marah tu ah waiting2 atu. Heheh.. Less than 30mins should be fine but more than that, we usually get annoyed easily. You think so girls? I don’t know abt other girls but I personally agreed with CL that I don’t like waiting for long hours.
AS for your story, its fine to be frens with her but its not right that she treated you like that. You sound like a nice guy and that you are still willing to meet her even after what she ever did to u. Well, i guess u still care about her so thats probably the reason you agreed to meet up. Thats just what i think.. but, you don’t deserve to be treated like shit. =) hehe, emosi teplang i. =p btw, keep updating.
December 9, 2008 at 1:23 am
SheDiLLa
elew..Salam Aidiladha to u too..
comments for ur scenario..
nda plg slh being friendly with ex-..as long as we know who is she/he..
here, u gave exmple as if it was u and ayu..ayu shudn’t hav disappoint u after disappointed u like b4 ani..mcm what kind of girl kn tu?..nda hormat urg and msa urg..she was d one who wanted to meet up but then it turned out that she couldn’t make at a very last minute mmbg tau..mcm kn main2 kn urg ta plg..that’s not a good girl..shame on u, girl..*to the girl who did this*..
never give chance lg for this type of girl..well maybe..bila ea bnr2 mean it..tp bila jua kitani tau kn ea bnr2 brubah..d bg pluang slah, nda d bg salah ta jua..hmm..cani la baik..to the girl, hargai pluang yg ada..as simple as ABC..
ok..that’s all i can say..hehe..
December 9, 2008 at 8:38 am
caught in a moment
First of all, Let me say this…. Astagafirullahhhh… MENGAPA IA??????
Ok I’m abit emotional now.. but yes.. WHY did she do that to him????
Kalau kan jumpa.. Inda salah.. Its okay.. But why did she want to do that to him? sengaja kan sakitkan hatinya kah? Come on.. What goes around comes around… apa rasa nya kalau diri kana buat cematu jua bebalik?
As a young lady.. Im sure the others (ladies) will agree with me that no one likes to be played around and nobody likes to wait nor to be stood up…
To the guy:
Im sorry that this thing happened to you and I really felt for you… Do not give anymore chances to his girl anymore.. Do not even have pity on her.. Do not waste your precious time in waiting for her. She’s just playing with your heart and your feelings.. Move on with your life. I’m sure you’re a great guy and you deserve a much better girl. Even as friends… You do not dump your friends just like that.. Respect each other!
I hope everything will be well for you in the near future.. Take care
December 9, 2008 at 10:20 pm
fizz
if she feel awkward kah apa meeting you up, she should’ve said no. or maybe otw nya kan jumpa you she changed her mind, at least bagitaulah bisai2.
if banar2 ada plan that day, why would she agree to meet you up?
and there you were. waiting for her, i think sekajap pun nda jua apa-apa kali… its too late to say no already.
i mean, what was she thinking? and she stood u up cmatu saja, who does she think she is?
marah sikit2 ni… huhuh
December 9, 2008 at 11:47 pm
Unsilent Reader
is dis a true scenario that happened between u and ayu zul? or issit just a scenario of someone else n u were just merely similarising the situations?
watever it is tho..i dont think its worth to befriend a person like the girl..like she didnt even tell the guy dat shes leaving..at least a courtesy to minta diri n say goodbye pun takder…instead she just left
December 10, 2008 at 9:57 am
AddictedtoLife
All i have to say is that some ppl never change, so dont even bother!! Theres never being friends with ex gf/bf s, for obv reasons! Too much history, it almost always ends in hurt.
The guy really needs to put her behind him, properly.
December 11, 2008 at 3:50 pm
BvlgariGal
Response to your Comment:
There can be 2 explaination about that Ayu gal..whoever the gal is. If she had promised to meet you, she should have known better that to meet an ex/old friend..workplace is inappropriate. If she is really sincere to meet you, she would have chosen a nicer and pleasant place to catch on latest news.
Since she had chose workplace to meet you…The reason is probably, she knew (1) A good escape by saying she’s busy and make the conversation short or (2) She just don’t know how to say no or decline to the idea of meeting up in the first place.
Probably, she feel awkward to meet up with an ex. But either way, hope you learnt your lesson that it’s hard to talk to an ex, it will take sometime to have casual conversation especially if both of u have been frenz before the relation was serious back then.
Anyway, don’t be too hard on urself. U’ll get over it soon.
January 20, 2009 at 10:21 pm
M
a) forget the cow! she’s history for a VERY GOOD reason
b) ignore future meetings
c) never wait for more than 30 mins.
d) upon agreeing to meet, inform her it was her decision to meet, she wanted it and that you only have 10 mins of your life to waste on her!!!
take note… saying no is a powerful thing. practice and be liberated!