Ladies,
I have a little scenario here to share.
One girl applied for loan from a bank. So yea she filled in the form and submitted the necessary paperworks, yada yada yada.. so yea, she went back home after completing all the formalities.
Then out of the blues, some guy contacted her through text message with the intention of ‘getting to know her’, kan berkenalan nya orang. Surprised, the girl asked him how did he get her number, her name, et al. The guy didn’t want to tell at first, but the girl persuaded.
And at last he revealed himself, he was actually one of the workers from the bank where the girl applied for loan. He saw her at the bank and hence digged into the girl’s personal data, or shall I say CONFIDENTIAL data just to get her number. Obviously there’s more than just contact numbers available in her file, her birthday, her address, even her salary and earnings are accessibile for the guy.
Ok fine. Just to be nice and not to be mean, the girl layan layan saja. What’s wrong with making friends right? The guy kept on texting and calling her quite regularly. But then the girl had the shock of the century when this guy suddenly wanted to be serious in their relationship, after only SIX (6) days of texting or calling!!
Well, of course, the girl did freaked out!
Question: So what type of man do you ladies make of this guy?
Your comments and feedback is highly appreciated. Thank you
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December 4, 2008 at 4:17 pm
caught in a moment
This guy’s desperate thats what I call.. Plus kan halnya.. Its sooo confidential jua tuu .. berani jua ia..
As a matter of fact.. he’s actually breaking the Code of Conduct of the Bank… He has no rights to call her or text her personally like that as the actual fact is that she is one of the customer’s of that particular bank…
Kalau pun kan berkenalan.. buatlah cara bisai.. Approach kah the girl…
Ani inda gentleman ehh.. And just after 6 days??? Hmmm Funny…
December 4, 2008 at 4:28 pm
dee
Shall I say desperate? or maybe he’s on a rebound. but still~ 6 days is a short time! But there is a thing called a “love at first sight” or “accidentally in love” =)
December 4, 2008 at 8:05 pm
fizz
first thing, he got the number over a confidential data. so not professional and very not trustworthy. second thing, in 6 days of “relationship”, he wants to get serious.. what’s the rush?
December 4, 2008 at 10:18 pm
SheDiLLa
hmm..not so sure with this type of guy..will make a friendly relation but not serious..langkah berjaga-jaga nya urg..better that way, i guess..
December 6, 2008 at 4:25 am
queenwani
he’s way too desperate T.T
cubatah get to know each other dulu, maybe there’s something behind it, tapi the thing is he’s too desperate lahh :s
December 6, 2008 at 6:54 pm
cute little hana
ok my comments ;
a) he shouldn’t have checked her details from her application form, i mean how scary is that???(if i were her i freaked out man!!)
b) getting serious after 6days???!!!??? SERIOUSLYYYYYYYY??? i double the scariness(sp)
c) if the guy is reading this (i hope so) dude, c’mon man u only know her in less than a week..get to know her better,not scare her..if u scare her, she might as well run away from u o even worst..REPORT YOU!!!
that’s all…hehehehe…i wonder wat the guys out there thought bout this…hmmmm
December 7, 2008 at 1:32 am
Lady Mia.
Well, as for me i just thought that he might not have the guts to approach her immediately. Oh c’mon.. you wouldnt want to be embarassed infront of people in the bank rite especially infront of your colleague perhaps? What if she refused to talk to him? That will embarass him even more.
Its another step in getting to know a girl especially when he is lack of confidence. It doesn’t harm actually getting to know someone with this tactic. At least he was honest by confronting her the truth. Since the girl is also responding to his calls and msgs, he probably assumed that the girl was interested too.
But…. after 6 days of knowing each other, the guy intended to get serious.. well, it sounds as if he’s well confident that he will be accepted. If you understand what love is, love does not need time to like someone. Like is one thing.. loving someone can be in a matter of minutes.. or even seconds. “Love at first sight”, what does it actually emphasize? He had fallen for her beautiful features and I believe he must’ve fallen for her during those 6 days of getting to know each other. It was actually admiring her beauty at first then the feelings dat had made him have the guts to make the 1st step. If the girl did not respond at 1st, he wouldn’t have keep on texting/calling her.
Both individuals probably feel the needs of wanting to know one another but maybe the girl just don’t feel right to move on to the next level at a short period of “getting to know” session. However, looking at the negative side, he shudn’t have tell her the real truth coz’ it just seems like he would do the same thing the next time if he happens to meet another lady that he will be interested in getting to know her. Its pretty confidential checking on someone’s particulars especially when it is your customer. He should’ve just tell her other excuses which can make her stop asking how did he get her no. When things get serious by then he must confront her the truth and explain briefly on the reason why he should lie at the 1st place. I’m pretty sure the lady would understand and will accept his explanation. If i were to comment more abt this topic, i would love to but i guess I have used up like almost half of the page with my comments . Hehehe… I hope you don’t mind zul. Oh ya, desperate is another thing. I may have different opinions from others. I don’t call it desperate but I’d call it “love is weird”.
But hey, you tell me Zul. What would you do if you were that guy? =)
December 7, 2008 at 2:23 am
Unsilent Reader
If I were the girl..yes I would report to the bank! I don’t even think thats the right way to be friendly either ..I see BREACH OF TRUST on his part being a bank employee. if he’s that untrustworthy at work.. do we think he’s gonna be trustworthy in relationship??
getting serious in 6 days..of course i’d freak out big big time.. desperate or not..tats not my problem.. if i were da girl.. i’ll avoid him at all cost.. if he tries to be funny with my confidential info that the bank keeps..i’ll report it to the bank.. or better..the police..
cute little hana..wat da guys think about this? sorry to say.. men think with their dicks.. no offense zul..ur a good man.. they will grab even da tiniest opportunity to get between our legs..by any means necessary..sweet talking.. u name it..be it the smooth way..or plain straight forward
ohhhh…and zul… good to see updates from u…keep it cominggggg pls..
January 3, 2009 at 11:46 am
Kecing
wuuuhh… can i haf her no. too?hahaha
January 20, 2009 at 9:53 pm
M
a) so unromantic.
b) unethical
c) desperate
d) psycho
e) joker
f) low self esteem
g) no respect for self and others
February 8, 2009 at 7:15 pm
Zee
Hehe.. I am far way left behind in this post..
ermm, actually kan.. are you talking about yourself? 
February 10, 2009 at 7:00 pm
Zul Cintaislove
Zee, nope. I don’t work in a bank